LET THEM PLAY WHAT THEY LOVE: WHY STUDENT CHOICE IN MUSIC MATTERS

Hawaii MusicWorks

When we sign our kids up for music lessons, we often imagine them mastering beautiful classical pieces or skill-building technical exercises. And while those have their place, there’s something magical about seeing a child light up when they play a song they truly love—whether it’s a pop hit, a movie soundtrack, or a theme from their favorite video game. Allowing students to choose their music can make all the difference in keeping them engaged, motivated, and excited to play.

Motivation Starts with Enjoyment
Let’s be honest—learning an instrument takes dedication, and practicing scales and etudes isn’t always thrilling. But when kids get to play music they recognize and enjoy, practice becomes something they look forward to rather than something they have to do. The simple act of choosing their own songs can make them feel more invested in their learning.

It Helps Them Connect Emotionally
Music isn’t just about technique; it’s about emotion and expression. Kids feel a deeper connection to songs they already love, making their playing more expressive and meaningful. Whether it’s the nostalgia of a Disney song, the excitement of a rock anthem, or the adventure of a video game theme, personal connection fuels passion for playing.

Builds the Same Essential Skills
Some might worry that playing non-classical pieces isn’t as beneficial as traditional exercises—but that’s simply not true. Pop songs teach rhythm and chord progressions, movie scores introduce dramatic dynamics, and video game themes often contain intricate melodies. Students still develop technical skills, ear training, and musicality—all while playing something they enjoy.

Encourages Creativity and Exploration
When students choose their own music, they’re more likely to experiment, improvise, and even compose. A child who loves pop music might start writing their own songs. A student drawn to film scores might get curious about orchestration. Encouraging this curiosity leads to deeper musical growth and a lifelong appreciation for music.

Keeps Them Playing for Life
One of the biggest reasons kids quit music lessons is because they lose interest. When they have the freedom to play music that excites them, they’re more likely to stick with it long-term. And ultimately, the goal isn’t just to complete lessons—it’s to nurture a love of music that lasts a lifetime.

Finding the Right Balance
Of course, structured learning is still important. The best approach is a mix: allowing students to choose some of their music while incorporating essential technique-building pieces. This balance keeps them progressing while ensuring they stay engaged and inspired.

The Takeaway
At the end of the day, music should be fun and fulfilling. Letting kids play what they love keeps them motivated, helps them grow as musicians, and makes practice something they truly enjoy. So whether it’s Beethoven or Billie Eilish, Star Wars or Studio Ghibli, what matters most is that they’re playing—and loving—the music they make.